Awakening to Connection

A book for daughters, parents, teachers, and readers working through repair, listening, and relationships.

Carolyn Cass Lorente, Ph.D., LCPC writes and speaks from developmental science, therapy, teaching, motherhood, and community work.

Carolyn Lorente standing in a green backyard setting.
Meet Carolyn Developmental psychologist, therapist, professor, and program evaluator. The Book A personal letter on listening, repair, and Spirit to Spirit connection. Reader Letters Send Carolyn a private note about the book.

A psychologist, therapist, professor, and program evaluator.

Carolyn Cass Lorente, Ph.D., LCPC is a developmental psychologist, therapist, professor, and program evaluator. Her research and practice focus on identity, intimacy, positive youth development, prevention, and community-based care.

As a former director of the Braden Center for Women, Gender and Social Equity and as a private practitioner, Carolyn has worked in clinical, academic, and community settings.

Author Developmental Psychologist LCPC Educator Program Evaluator Speaker
Portrait of Carolyn Lorente smiling in a garden.
Book cover for Awakening to Connection: A Letter to Our Daughters by Carolyn Cass Lorente, Ph.D., LCPC.

Awakening to Connection: A Letter to Our Daughters.

The book is written as a letter. Carolyn asks readers to listen without rushing to fix, notice where silence has replaced contact, and take a concrete step toward repair.

Carolyn writes for daughters, younger selves, parents, teachers, healers, and readers navigating family, work, grief, conflict, or change. The material comes from developmental science, therapy, parenting, nature, and reflective practice; the central question is how people meet one another Spirit to Spirit.

Cover art by Connie Elsberg.

What early readers are saying.

“At times, it genuinely felt as though Carolyn was sitting across from me, sharing insights over a cup of tea.”

Alicia Paramo-Dionne Retired counselor, psychology professor, and lifelong learner

Awakening to Connection poses self-reflection, reveals bi-directional influences, and details the ways we can heal from our environment.”

“In reading these chapters, I further understand the interconnection between motherhood and girlhood as a blend of discovery, exploration, and actualization.”

Madison Carter Graduate student in social work and mentor closing gaps to thriving

“Whether a reader is a young adult just beginning to grow their connections, a parent seeking to reestablish connections that withered in the wake of a fast-paced career and family obligations, or an empty-nester who is curious about propagating new friendships as an older adult, a reader will find solace and encouragement here.”

Ruth White Co-founder and Executive Director, National Center for Housing and Child Welfare

“Dr. Lorente weaves together her knowledge and wisdom from decades of scholarship, counseling, and parenting to reassure and inspire young people as they find their identity and place in the world. Brimming with practical exercises, scientific examples, and memorable stories, this superb book teaches us to care for all young people—as if they were our children—and to help them connect with hopeful futures.”

Dr. Lene Arnett Jensen Senior Research Scientist, Clark University, Massachusetts · Author of Child Development: A Cultural Approach, 4e

Selected writing, research, podcasts, and interviews.

Books

Books & Edited Volumes

Books and chapters on prevention, youth development, relationship-building, and applied work for academic and general audiences.

Scholarship

Research & Publications

Research on identity development, intimacy, applied developmental science, program evaluation, and community-based intervention.

Media

Podcasts & Interviews

Conversations about parenting, civility, wellness, leadership, listening, and staying connected in daily life.

Carolyn Lorente smiling with two young women in a backyard setting.

Talks and workshops on listening, repair, youth development, and community care.

Carolyn speaks for conferences, leadership trainings, parent groups, wellness programs, young adult salons, community events, and academic settings. Her talks use developmental science, therapy, teaching, parenting, and program work.

  • Open-minded, non-judgmental listening
  • Spirit to Spirit connection
  • Repair, trust, and communities of care
  • Positive youth development, parenting, and young adulthood
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Readers may write to a daughter, a younger self, or someone they are trying to understand. Submissions are private by default. Carolyn reviews letters herself, and nothing is shared publicly without permission.

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